Archive for Self Image

Skinnygurl vs Skinnygirl

Posted in Entertainment, Food, Life, Writing with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on September 1, 2012 by urbannight

After seeing an amusing search term on the daily stats page, I decided to look up my all time search terms and found something new since the last time I looked at it.  There is a new term creating the most hits for my blog.  Skinnygurl.  Here is the instances of it in the top 11 search terms.

1. Skinny gurl blog
3. Skinny gurl
4. Skinny gurl blogger
6. Skinnygurl blog
8. Who is skinnygurl
11. Who is skinny gurl blogger

So I spent a few minutes looking up some updates and the computer asked me if I meant Skinnygirl.  So I did a little comparing.

Skinnygurl wants to celebrate the unhealthily thin.  She is anonymous.  She admits she is a bit outrageous when she writes.  She never thought the people she was writing about would actually see her page.  She didn’t realize her site looked pro-anorexia and never intended to send that message.  (After looking at  her site a bit, I found that claim to be very hard to believe.  But maybe she really believes that in her own mind). She feels that there is a double standard where people think it is okay to get into an ultra-thin person’s face and tell her she is too thin and she needs to eat more and so on while people don’t do that to overweight people.

Skinnygirl, on the other hand, is not anonymous.  She tells you who she is.  She is about becoming skinny but has a more interesting approach.  She is all about loving yourself and valuing your self as you are and using that self-love and self-worth to convert your lifestyle into a more healthy one.  By loving yourself as you are, you can convert that into self-care and motivation to become more healthy.

Skinnygurl is about cutting people down and being over critical while Skinnygirl is about lifting people up and giving them support.

One letter off and you have a diametrically opposing method for the same topic, weight loss.  Skinnygirl is a bit on the touchy-feely side of the self-help guru methodology of the 1980’s and 1990’s.  But still, it isn’t a bad message and it isn’t a bad methodology when it works for someone.  For a misanthropic person such as myself, it’s to saccharine sweet.  But I can still see that is has much more value in it than using a critical, shame-based method to motivate people to be super skinny.

Commenting on that Skinny Gurl Blogger.

Posted in Entertainment, Food, Life, Politics, Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on July 14, 2012 by urbannight

In response to the blogger who runs that Skinny Gurl website, who says she is 5 foot 7 and takes pride in staying 100 lbs, I have this to say:

Anyone who is 5 foot 7 inches and only 100 lbs needs to see a doctor. It is impossible to get proper nutrition that far underweight.

I’m only 4 foot 11 inches and 100 lbs is getting close to the BOTTOM of my weight range. I felt sick and unhealthy when I dropped to 96 lbs. I felt best, when younger, at 98 to 100. Now I would give my eye teeth to reach 120 again. But I would never want to be so thin that I looked like I was rescued from a nazi death camp

She also says that there is a double standard. She thinks no one things twice about telling super thin women they need to eat more but they don’t say anything about overweight women eating too much. Actually, they do, but usually in a passive aggressive manner. It’s more like they make a point to say snide, derogatory, and insulting comments near enough to the overweight person to make sure they hear it.

The difference is that the comments directed towards overweight people are meant to be hurtful and they don’t say it to a person directly. People saying anything to thin people are more likely to be a friend or someone you at least know and it is said directly to them out of care and concern.

Can’t she see that difference?

When she insults people who actually are healthy and not over or below their weight range with highly derogatory and insulting language is part of the problem of poor self-image among women and girls. It is not a solution to Skinny Gurl’s anger or irritation that people don’t want to accept her ultra skinny, internment camp look.

The Trouble With Jeans

Posted in Life, Uncategorized, Writing with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on April 11, 2012 by urbannight

I have several issues w/ Jeans.  Even when I was skinny I had enough problems that I hated them.  But I hate seeing them on people anymore.

1. In the 90’s, we had a lot of cuts of jeans.  Normal Jeans, Boy Cut, Low Riders.  These days low riders are different.  You never even hear of Boy Cut as the now normal jean is the boy cut.  And normal jeans are now called Mom Jeans.

2. I hate this development for a variety of reasons.

3. Reason 1.  Heathy girls who are not overweight and would look good in my idea of normal jeans have a muffin top in the ‘new’ normal jeans.  So it makes young girls how are healthy and shapely think they are fat and that they need to lose weight.

4. Reason 2.  When someone actually does wear real, normal jeans, everyone starts yelling and screaming that they must be gaining weight and getting fat because no one wear that kind of jean otherwise. 

5. Reason 3.  The pockets.  ARG!!!!!  They moved the waist down to the hips and then they moved the pockets farther down so that they are still the same distance down from the waistband.  This Looks Horrible.  Pockets now are half on the butt and half on the thighs.  It looks terrible.  Did I say that already? Can I say it again? It Looks Terrible.  Pockets should create this nice frame on the butt cheeks. 

I see girls wearing jeans and because they sit lower on the hips there is nothing holding them up.  They have to be a bit too tight to keep them up or you see girls constantly pulling up their pants.  And decorative pockets just look like crap.  Either stop using decorative stitches or get rid of the pockets completely. 

Since I don’t think jeans are ever going to go back to normal, I will probably never wear a pair again. 

I am thankful for one thing.  The attempt to have the fly open and folded over to display pretty panties as a fashion statement died after about a month.  Maybe less.  That was one of the worst fashion statements ever.